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What Buddhism Taught Me About Product Management

Jun 2019

Find fulfillment in solving, not preventing problems

The illusion that you can reach a state where all problems are solved is the root of team suffering. Instead, accept that fires will always burn and people will always get upset. Find your fulfillment in the act of solving problems, not in the fantasy of a problem-free state.
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