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What Buddhism Taught Me About Product Management

Jun 2019

Suffering usually relates to wanting things different

Most unhappiness in product work comes from resisting reality as it is. The gap between how you want things to be and how they actually are is where suffering lives. Closing that gap requires accepting reality first, then acting.
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