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What Buddhism Taught Me About Product Management

Jun 2019

All unhappiness comes from not facing reality

The Buddha's insight applies directly to product work: unhappiness stems from refusing to see things as they truly are. Effective PMs must develop the discipline to see their products, teams, and markets with clear eyes—not through the lens of what they wish were true.
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