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What Buddhism Taught Me About Product Management

Jun 2019

The ego is an observer, not the CEO

Your sense of control and unchanging identity is a useful construct, but not reality. You're the observer of your life, not its CEO. This realization is powerful for keeping ego in check, especially when credit and visibility are on the line.
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